For adults · Dating
On a date
You are at a restaurant on a date. The menu is long and you cannot decide, and the waiter is coming back.
What could you say to your date?
Three things you could say. None of them is the one right answer; each note says why it fits the moment, or why it may not.
I get stuck with big menus. What are you having? I might copy you.
A strong fit
It asks for help lightly and says something true about you.
Could you ask them for a few more minutes?
Also works here
This buys time through your date. It works; you can also ask the waiter yourself.
Order the first thing you see and regret it.
Worth a second look
You can. It skips the help that was one sentence away.
What people here usually expect
- Asking a date what they are having is normal and often welcome.
- Waiters expect "a few more minutes" and are used to it.
- Saying you find menus hard is a small honest detail, not a confession.
Your words
Write one line you could say to a date when you cannot decide. Keep it light and true.
In the app you write one line here and it lands in your lines. Nothing is graded.
The move this moment practises: Ask for help.
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