For adults · Dating
End of a date
At the end of a date they ask, "Do you want to come back to mine?" You do not.
What could you say?
Three things you could say. None of them is the one right answer; each note says why it fits the moment, or why it may not.
No, not tonight. I have had a good time.
A strong fit
A clear no with something true and kind. No reason needed.
I would rather keep it to tonight and see you again.
Also works here
A no with an opening. Only add the second half if you mean it.
Say "maybe" and hope they drop it.
Worth a second look
This is a no said as a maybe. It leaves them guessing.
What people here usually expect
- A no to going home together is complete. Decent people accept it as the end of the question.
- You do not owe an explanation.
- Saying you enjoyed the date and saying no can both be true.
Your words
Write a no to the end of a date that says what you did enjoy, if you want to.
In the app you write one line here and it lands in your lines. Nothing is graded.
The move this moment practises: A clear no.
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