For adults · Friends
With a friend
A friend says, "I started the new job on Monday. The commute is brutal."
Which question follows?
Three things you could say. None of them is the one right answer; each note says why it fits the moment, or why it may not.
How long is the commute? And how is the job itself so far?
A strong fit
Both parts of your question come from their sentence.
What is the team like?
Also works here
Connected to the new job. It skips the commute they mentioned, which is fine.
My commute is twenty minutes.
Worth a second look
This is about you. It does not ask about what they shared.
What people here usually expect
- When a friend mentions something hard, asking about it usually lands better than comparing.
- You can ask about the thing they complained about. That is not prying.
- Two questions is the upper end. One is plenty.
Your words
Write one question about the job or the commute, using their words.
In the app you write one line here and it lands in your lines. Nothing is graded.
The move this moment practises: A connected question.
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