For adults · Health and appointments
At a support group
Someone at a group says, "I finally told my manager about my diagnosis last week."
Which question follows?
Three things you could say. None of them is the one right answer; each note says why it fits the moment, or why it may not.
How did it feel to say it out loud?
A strong fit
It stays with the thing they shared and asks about their experience.
What made you decide to tell them now?
Also works here
Connected and open. A little more probing; fine in a group that shares.
I would never tell my manager.
Worth a second look
This is about you and closes their topic.
What people here usually expect
- In support groups, asking about how something felt is the expected question.
- You do not need to share your own story to ask about theirs.
- One question, then listen.
Your words
Write one question that stays with what they shared, without asking for details they did not offer.
In the app you write one line here and it lands in your lines. Nothing is graded.
The move this moment practises: A connected question.
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