🧠 Sovelo Stories · Tricky moments
When I Am Not Chosen
I hoped to be picked, and someone else was picked instead.. Read it together, at your pace. Every page is written in your child's voice.
1. Sometimes there is a special job, a part, or a prize. I hope to be chosen. Then someone else is chosen instead.
2. Not being chosen can sting. My disappointed feeling makes sense. I really wanted it.
3. My brain might whisper, "You were not picked because you are not good." But brains guess wrong a lot.
Why was I not chosen this time? There were only a few spots and many kids. The chooser needed something specific this time. It is a take-turns thing, and my turn is coming. We do not have enough information to know. 💡 Not being chosen has many possible reasons. "I am not good enough" is only a guess, and usually a wrong one.
4. While the sting fades, I have choices.
take slow breaths say to myself "next time is coming" do something I am good at after school tell a grown-up how it felt
5. I can also ask the chooser, "Can I have a turn another time?" Asking shows I am still interested. Choosers remember that.
6. The choosing moment ends fast, even though the feeling lasts longer. More choosings are always coming. My turn is out there.
✦ Practice this story interactively — free in the Sovelo app
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Sovelo Stories are original social narratives, written for neurodivergent kids and reviewed against strict guardrails: no eye-contact training, no masking, no mind-reading — and "no" is always a complete answer. Evidence-informed preparation, not a treatment. © Ezra Brown.